sycata

Hey there! I guess like many of us here trying to hunt for love. I’m one of the many, and am still searching for that ideal man and what I’m looking for. I am really interested to have a long term relationship and restart a family now, and eventually get married when the time is right. I want something more serious when it comes to relationships. My history: I am originally from Cebu, Philippines. I'm just a simple Filipina/Cebuana. I was born, raised, and lived there for 23 years with my family, but moved here in the US for 26 years. To make story short, yes, i got divorced, and have two sons ages 23 and 18. I have been a single mom for the past 13 years, and has been single. But after so many years of being single, I realized that I have missed something too, and that being with someone special, or just missed the idea of being “married”. So, that’s why I’m here also to try to look for that special someone. It could be you, we never know what brought us here on earth, and whatever journeys we have in life. My physical attributes:
I'm small/petite, but cute, caring, loving, thoughtful, non-smoker, non-drinker, quiet, shy at first, friendly, generous, compassionate, affectionate. loves to garden, art, music, swimming, cooking, shopping, and partying. Likes and dislikes: I like a variety of music, be it pop, jazz, modern, hot, love, romantic, OPMs, foreign, etc. I don't like rap, country, and heavy metal that much. I like Pinoy teleseryes/telenovels, as well, as American movies. Always love the Philippine authentic foods as well as native foods. Also, like Chinese, Thai, Japanese, Mexi and American foods occasionally. I love to visit unto a very solemn and sacred religious places like the Rome/Vatican where the Pope lives, The Simala in Cebu, and other religious places because i would find some solitude, serenity, and peaceful atmosphere away from all the chaos and traumas in life. What I'm Looking For A Man: The Attraction. It's what I would call the "getting my attention" and being able to walk by me and have me understand the person you are deep down. The Spark. The spark is where you separate yourself from the crowd of other men. This is where you need to step out of the shallowness and really show me where you are special, what inner talents, skills, or passions you have are to be used to do to make me feel special. The Relationship. It's time to start to see if we are we meant to be together. What do I want at this point? The answer is your responsiveness to my needs and for you to not give up on me. You can be funny, charming, strong, fragile, serious, caring, loving, kind, generous, thoughtful, responsible, hardworker, diligent, affectionate, forgiving, compassionate, lovable, humorous, pleasant, loyal, gentleman, fun to be with, or a host of every other 100% opposite feelings as long as you are being real with me. A non-smoker, non-drinker, no drugs are a big plus. The greatest part of a relationship is tied to the most frustrating part. The closeness needed for a strong relationship can only come out of fighting to understand that other person and how to meet each other in ways that we both need. At this level, I have to ask myself: Is he worth it? Even when we are fighting or going through a rough patch do you still want to be with me? In addition, he must be a man with respect, honor, and dignity. Responsible, very supportive of his partner, mature, loving, caring, thoughtful, compassionate, giving, understanding, affectionate, and all the other positive aspects about him that would make me fall for him. His character is paramount; Character speaks loudly of a virtuous and trustworthy man. A relationship is based on love, transparency, honesty, fidelity, sincerity and loyalty, A man with a great sense of humor, who is non-judgmental, kindhearted or genuinely genuinely kind, tolerant, patient, liberal, thoughtful, compassionate, easy-going, caring and dutiful. I am not looking for a perfect relationship or a perfect love. Humans are not flawless and I expect him to exhibit one. His character or inner-self is important to me. He might be sporty, muscular, average or otherwise, I am only interested in the content not the container; do you resemble that person? If interested to know more about me, please, don’t hesitate to write. I appreciate it more if you could leave a message than just expressing your interests as it shows that you have taken some steps to get to know me more, and that interests me if you do that. I am more inclined to reply your messages. Any questions? Be glad to answer them. Goodluck on your “love hunting!” I will stop here for now. You take good care and hope to hear from you.
"Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason."—Marc