Rick59

On the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator I am a INTJ. I think it's worth looking up to understand me. I am also a Christian which as INTJ is very rare.

I married young, and divorced. I was in the military, and she was seeing someone else. She asked for the divorce. I remarried and had four children. The divorce that followed was upon mutual agreement. I was then a single dad with full custody of my kids. The divorce was for the well being of my children. After the divorce she was never involved in the children's life. I remarried many years later, only to divorce again. Again it was a mutual agreement, and for the well being of my children. My children well being was always the most important thing.

For most of my life I was a single dad, with full custody of my children. Mom only had supervised visitation, and even with that she never saw them after the divorce. We were divorced when they were 6, 5, 4 and 2.

I do not drive and will not be able to drive until February ****. My license has not been revoked, nor has it been suspended for DUI , DWI or failing to pay child support. It really is a money issue.

Are you still with me?

I spend several years working in the IT field. I did for several years own a small retail business in that field. Currently I work for a major retailer, and I am not thrilled with it but it pays the bills. I do not live pay check to pay check, but direct deposit to direct deposit. :) I am trying to improve my finical situation, I am not looking for a money tree, nor am I am desperate. God always provides.

In my spare time, I work on programming and developing a Christian Discipleship Center.

I was raised Methodist, but have over the last few years attended Southern Baptist Churches. As for my faith it is very important to me. Recently I published a message on ******** stating I no longer associated myself with Evangelical Christians. I am a follower of Christ, a disciple of Christ. I cannot abide by or tolerate those who call themselves Evangelical Christians and yet support the separation of children from their parents at the border. It is not what Christ would have done. This is just one area of disagreement I have.

If you voted for the current president, and have no regrets, WE WILL NOT BE A MATCH. I do not understand how anyone can support such a hateful, racist, womanizer. I can not understand how anyone can call him a good businessman. Four bankruptcies do not make you a good businessman.

Still here?

I am a passionate person. I am also a hopeless romantic. Having said that I do not need a woman to make my life complete. If God desires me to be single for the rest of my life I am happy with that. I am not co-dependent. I love the company of that special person in my life but I am quite able to do things on my own if need be. I understand we both may have interests that we are passionate about, but the other is not. We can still share many other things together. .

Music. I dislike RAP, and not big fan of country. I do like Christian Contemporary, and the old Rock and Roll.

It is my hope that in three years, I can spend my time fully on programming, the Discipleship Center, my children, and grandchildren, traveling hopefully, and some mission work. Retire yes, but only so I can spend more time doing the things I enjoy. I would love to have someone to share that time with.

I am not a judgmental person, I can not be with my life. I believe in 2nd chances. I am not perfect, nor do I expect you to be perfect. I do not normally contact anyone here because of the divorces and not driving at this time. It's a turn off for most. If you can overlook all that, and are understanding, please drop me a line.

BTW The pictures posted are about 4 years old. Within a few months I will have full head of hair, if that makes a difference. I am also about 30-40 lbs lighter.

Hope to hear from you!!